Books by Paul C. Brunson
Find it. Keep it. Deepen it.
I write practical, research-informed books for the relationships we want to build—and keep.
The Fundamentals of Love · 01
LoveHow to navigate modern love and discover the right partner for you
Find Love
Find Love is a practical guide to understanding what you need, dating with intention and choosing a compatible partner. It explores the decisions, patterns and pressures that shape modern dating without pretending there is one formula for everyone.
Published 1 February 2024 · ISBN 9781785044687 · 288 pages.
The Fundamentals of Love · 02
Love21 truths for a long-lasting relationship
Keep Love
Keep Love turns research, case studies and practical tools into twenty-one lessons for protecting connection and building a relationship that can grow. It is for people who want to understand not just how love begins, but how it lasts.
Published 6 February 2025 · ISBN 9781785044694 · 304 pages.
Forthcoming · 18 February 2027
To TalkHow to hold space for love, trust and lasting connection
We Need to Talk
My next book explores intimacy as the ongoing act of making space for someone else to exist fully. It offers a learnable practice for listening, presence, repair and helping the people in our lives feel genuinely seen.
Publishing 18 February 2027 · ISBN 9781785044700 · 224 pages.
Earlier work · 2012
It’s Complicated.
It’s Complicated (But It Doesn’t Have to Be) began my published work on making relationship choices clearer, more intentional and more grounded in what people genuinely need.
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Each week I send one honest, useful note on relationships, culture, work and life.