30 Steps To A Better You – The Journey Begins!

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WWII veteran Ed Bray was 89 years old when he finally learned how to read the medals he’d been awarded for his bravery. He’d been illiterate for the majority of his life, a secret he hid with the help of his wife, who died in 2009 and close friends.

But he’d been ashamed. It was like he was only living half his life because he couldn’t fully appreciate it all.

While you and I may be literate, we all have things in our life that hold us back from fully appreciating our lives. Maybe it’s our fears. Maybe it’s how we feel about our bodies, or our minds. Maybe it’s emotional or mental. Maybe it’s our relationships – family, friends, significant others – and how those relationships are faring. Are they thriving or failing? And if they’re failing, how is that holding us down?

I’m here to propose that just because you’ve always been one way, doesn’t mean you have to stay that way. Just like Ed Bray didn’t have to remain illiterate, we don’t have to remain unable to find and enjoy the things we want in life.

But how do we get there?

It starts in the same way it started for Bray. We have to learn.

Starting today (and posted each week for the next 30 weeks) I’m going to take you back to school with my new plan, “30 Steps to A Better You,” for how we can make our lives better for ourselves, our families, our businesses, in our personal lives and with our partners. Each step will seem easy to follow, but that’s just the reading part. It’s in the actual doing and following of these steps that will determine whether or not you’ll finally get where you need to go.

Life isn’t about finding yourself, it’s about creating yourself. Many times we get stuck. The “30 Steps” series is the push on your back to help you move. Are you just getting out of a relationship? Are you feeling lost or aimless in life? Are you having trouble clarifying and defining your passions? Then these 30 Steps were designed just for you.

In life we’re taught that the willingness to learn and grow from what we learn is what it takes to make it. It doesn’t matter whether “making it” is for school or for a job or career. How well we adapt and modify our behaviors and mindset determines our success. But how do you adapt? How do you change your mindset?

Well, that’s what I’m here for. Together we’re going to all get to where we need to be.

Are you ready to learn?

To read the first step (#1) on identifying your values, click here.  

 

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About Paul C. Brunson
Mentor, Entrepreneur, & Television Host. My goal is to help you live your best life. I’m the world’s most influential matchmaker, founded and exited three businesses, host two television shows, spent nearly a decade working directly for a billionaire, and share my experiences by mentoring through Knowledge Share

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I am

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Love it Rebecca, welcome!!!

zoe
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count me in

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Welcome Zoe, thanks for joining in on the journey!

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I’m ready! Let’s go!

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Let’s goooooooooo Juliann!!!

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Shaneka Griffin

I am game! This is going to be an exciting 30 weeks!

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It sure is Shaneka! Welcome!!!

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Noeniboo Aquino

THIS IS JUST WHAT I NEED! LETS DO THIS!!!

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Let’s make it happen Noeniboo – welcome!!!

Natasha Ptomey
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I am so ready for this! Excited!

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I’m excited too Natasha!!! Welcome 🙂

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Jason Stubbs

I already know that this will be a 60 day program for me. After the 30 days, I will just start all over again !

Paul Carrick Brunson
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Paul Carrick Brunson

I really look forward to your feedback on the series Jason!

✨Ethel Cox✨
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I will be tuning in!

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Thanks Ethel, welcome!

Vanessa R. Frazier
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Vanessa R. Frazier

I’m ready. Looking forward to doing this.

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Paul Carrick Brunson

Nice Vanessa, welcome!

Maureen Saturne
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Maureen Saturne

This sounds amazing. I’m in.

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Welcome Maureen!!!

Alicia Harkless
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Alicia Harkless

I think you were writing this about me. I’m in!!!

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Love it Alicia, welcome!!!

CARON
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I’m ready!

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I’ve never known you not to be ready sis 🙂 Welcome!!!

Debbie
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How will this work? A weekly email or login time?

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Paul Carrick Brunson

Hi Debbie! All you have to do is visit this site each Monday. By 7am ET I’ll post the step of the week along with an exercise and additional resources for further information.

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Learning2liveagain

Thanks I really needed this!

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Welcome!!!

Nicole Adell
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Nicole Adell

I have not been able to acquire your services, maybe some time in the future i still hope to, but the mentor Mondays, your book along with your blog post have helped me delve deeper into my authentic self and reorganize my priorities personal and with work, and things are going really well so excited whats about to transpire. Looking forward to this new series, I will be participating. Also thank for giving us a glimpse of your experiences, fears, challenges and triumphs, those who give advice do not always share there own bumps in the road so thank you… Read more »

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It makes me feel good to read this Nicole and know that I have been able to support your evolution. I look forward to you joining this series and believe you will find it to be a value add!

Will
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Will

I’m in. I need this…I really do!

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Welcome Will!!!

Shah
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So, we have to wait until next Monday for the first step?

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Paul Carrick Brunson

Hi Shah! Yes, next Monday I will publish the first step. Today is the announcement of the series so that everyone is aware of the plan.

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OK; I’m ready! 🙂

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I’m all the way in!!!

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Nice, welcome Marcia!

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My man Brandon, nice add!

Joy
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Water for a very dry well. Thank you Paul!

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Welcome to the family Joy!

Aleshia
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Looking forward to it.

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Welcome Aleshia!

Margie
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Margie

Thank you for doing this. I need it and more importantly, I’m open and ready for this

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The key word you mentioned Margie is “open” – I love it. Welcome!

Noelyn Rodney
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Noelyn Rodney

I’m ready for the challenge…”life isn’t about finding yourself, it’s about creating yourself” – Love it !

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Paul Carrick Brunson

Welcome Noelyn!!!

Lake
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Lake

This is truly perfect timing my birthday is approaching at years end and I would love to be on my way to a better ME!! Thank you for this series.

Paul Carrick Brunson
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Welcome to the family Lake!

Lake
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Lake

Thank you Paul .

Michelle Lynn Thompson
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Michelle Lynn Thompson

I am ready for the challenge. Looking forward to doing the work to clarify my passions so that I can be actively engaged in this next season of my journey! Perfect timing!

Paul Carrick Brunson
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Paul Carrick Brunson

Welcome Michelle!!!

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KShumate

Im In ! What is the next step ?

Paul Carrick Brunson
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Paul Carrick Brunson

Nice. Come back next Monday and you’ll see a post with the next step!

Chinenye Nwosu
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Chinenye Nwosu

I am really looking forward to this Paul. Let it begin already!

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Paul Carrick Brunson

Let it! Welcome Chinenye!

SB
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SB

I’m ready and looking forward to this as well. An awesome way to transition into fall. Thanks in advance!

Jennifer
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Jennifer

Wow…I just stumbled on this site and glad I did. I am looking forward to reconnecting with myself and moving forward!

Markeith A. Braden
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Markeith A. Braden

I am planning to participate and look forward to doing the next 30 days of life with you and others who will participate. Check me out at http://www.markeithbraden.com. I enjoy reading your post.

MAB

Janelle
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Janelle

I’m in. This year has been a year of growth, anything to aid in the process is appreciated. The world is waiting for me to stop being fearful & step into my greatness. I’m finally ready!!!

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Alyscia C-Photo

I’M ALL THE WAY IN. Ready to be unstuck and move forward.

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Mel Curry

I’m ready, I’m ready, I’m ready! So glad for this, I missed you a MegaFest.

charity
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charity

Ive been checking up on this post for a few weeks now, theres nothing past step #9. How do i see the rest of the steps?

Mia
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Mia

Hi, are there only 9 steps instead of 30? I cannot get past 9.

MKB
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MKB

Hi there,
I, like Mia and Charity, am wondering where the rest of the chapters are, there doesn’t seem to be anything beyond #9…?

Joyrina Hunter
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Joyrina Hunter

Yay Paul you’re the best! I’ve learned so much from you

Leon Thompson
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Leon Thompson

Francine Daley

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Paul Carrick Brunson

Joyrina Hunter I’m excited for you to join this series!!!

Joyrina Hunter
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Joyrina Hunter

I can’t wait I enjoyed mentor Monday U are so inspiring I can’t wait to meet U in person

Lee Allison
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Lee Allison

U re the best. Send love and hug for baby kingston

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Daisy Her

Paul thank you dude, once again I’m amazed on how much you do for you peeps.. not only do you give us hope to find true love, but you empower us to grow as an individual and I have to say … you are a perfect example of success.. God bless !! (maybe when you come to Atlanta I can meet you :)) keep being humble#inspiring#empowering#hope# Thank you

Sharifa Charles
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Sharifa Charles

Yayyyyy!!!

Bridget Smith
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Bridget Smith

Yay! I’ve been waiting and holding onto the folder I started this with. Very excited!!!!!!!!!!

Bridget Smith
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Bridget Smith

Wait. Do we have to wait for everyone to catchup or will you start adding the new one’s now and let everyone go at their own pace? Paul Carrick Brunson

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