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Better With Paul is a podcast, newsletter, and community for everyone who values legacy, culture and financial freedom. Periodically, I identify and dissect business, relationship and health lessons from the journeys of innovators, entrepreneurs and creators from the U.S., UK, Caribbean and Africa.

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20 Things I’ve Learned After 7 years of Being a Professional Matchmaker

2016 marks my 7th year as a professional matchmaker. Thanks to the addition of an incredible team added in 2013, my agency has dramatically increased the number of clients we serve and our client geographic footprint continues to expand, as…

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7 Tips to Make a Good Impression with Everyone in 90 Seconds (or Less)

What is rapport exactly? It happens when two or more people are in sync or on the "same page" because they feel similar or relate well to each other. When you master establishing rapport, you will have more success in…

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How To Pitch Yourself (to Become a Husband or a Wife)

The following post is written by Jay Hurt. Jay is a Relationship Coach, columnist and author of the book, The 9 Tenets of a Successful Relationship, for Singles. You can find him on Twitter, Facebook and his website. A friend…

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If Your Partner Can’t Be Selfless, Joint Money Management Will Be A Problem

The following post is written by Jay Hurt. Jay is a Relationship Coach, columnist and author of the book, The 9 Tenets of a Successful Relationship, for Singles. You can find him on Twitter, Facebook and his website. Marriage is…

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10 Places to Meet a Man This Holiday Season

The one question I can’t seem to escape this time of year is: "Where do I meet single men, Paul?" While I am not a believer in one ultimate Mecca for single men, I do know there are better places…

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5 Questions Men Should Ask BEFORE Approaching Women

The following post is written by Renita Bryant. She is the author of the critically acclaimed novella, Yesterday Mourning. You can follow her on Twitter and read her thought-provoking blog.  A few weeks ago I was asked a very simple…

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What Relationship Compatibility Really Means

The following post is written by Jay Hurt. Jay is a Relationship Coach, columnist and author of the book, The 9 Tenets of a Successful Relationship, for Singles. You can find him on Twitter, Facebook and his website. I am…

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