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Better With Paul is a newsletter and upcoming podcast for people who value legacy, financial freedom, and culture.

I have spent the last decade talking with peak performers like Oprah, 50 Cent, Katie Couric, and Ted Leonsis. Better With Paul allows me to identify and dissect the business, relationship, and health lessons from the journeys of these innovators, entrepreneurs, creators, and researchers. The podcast will launch on July 1st, 2020!

I write a weekly newsletter called Better where I share lessons learned preparing, interviewing, and observing the world’s top performers. I also include announcements and invitations to special events. Available only through email.

What I Wish Everyone Knew About Couples Counseling

The following post is by my friend Esther Boykin is a licensed marriage and family therapist and relationship coach who is passionate about helping people who are ready for change to take the first step. Be sure to visit her…


(30 Steps to a Better You) Step #6: How To Prepare Your Physical Environment

The ability to simplify means to eliminate the unnecessary so that the necessary may speak.  ~Hans Hofmann In our last step on our “30 Steps to A New You” challenge we looked at making goals. In these next steps, we’ll…


How I Knew My Husband was the One: How to Know If He’s Marriage Material (Finding Your Boaz)

The following is a post by my sister-in-law Nikisha Brunson. Be sure to check out her amazing blog as well as follow her on instagram. I receive many emails and I am frequently asked these three questions:  How did you…


The One Trait a Relationship Must Have to Start is Attraction

The following guest post is from my friend Jay Hurt. Be sure to follow him on twitter and visit his website. at·trac·tion /əˈtrakSHən/ noun 1. A person or thing that draws, allures or entices. 2. A characteristic or quality that provides…


(30 Steps to a Better You) Step #7: The 5 Friend Assessment (And How to Unfriend If Necessary)

Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.— Oprah Winfrey When I talk about “relationships” in our “30 Steps…


You Are Never Going to Read a Book and Figure Out Your Passion

The following is an interview I did with the good guys over at The Phat Startup. Be sure to follow them on twitter! From the fellas at The Phat Startup: What can be as hard as building a business but…


How I Knew My Wife was the One (Finding My Ruth)

The following post is written by my friend Timothy Woods about how he met and fell in love with his soon-to-be wife LaKisha Campbell. Be sure to check out Tim's website as well as follow him on Twitter. Also, see…


(30 Steps to a Better You): Step #8: Do You Know Your Personality Type?

"Personality has power to uplift, power to depress, power to curse, and power to bless." ~Paul Harris  What’s your type? And I’m not asking what type you’d prefer to date. Let’s talk personality. This next step in our “30 Steps…


What Forgiveness Won’t Do

The following post is written by Shakirah Hill, a creative strategist who works at a public relations and marketing agency.  Follow her on Twitter and also check out her website. Few people consider the magnitude of their marital vows while…


The Secret of Going From Girlfriend to Wife

The following post is written by my close friend and co-worker Shannon Howey. Shannon is the Client Services Director for my coaching and matchmaking agency. Please follow her on twitter. We no longer live in the days where getting pushed…