Better With Paul is a newsletter and upcoming podcast for people who value legacy, financial freedom, and culture.
I have spent the last decade talking with peak performers like Oprah, 50 Cent, Katie Couric, and Ted Leonsis. Better With Paul allows me to identify and dissect the business, relationship, and health lessons from the journeys of these innovators, entrepreneurs, creators, and researchers. The podcast will launch on July 1st, 2020!
I write a weekly newsletter called Better where I share lessons learned preparing, interviewing, and observing the world’s top performers. I also include announcements and invitations to special events. Available only through email.
10 Lessons I Learned While Making My First $1 Million
The last 6 years in business have been transformative for me - both personally and financially. I have never been more fulfilled and purpose-driven than I have been doing what I do. And, as a result of stepping out on…
The BIGGEST Yet Easiest To Fix Social Media Mistake We Make
On March 27th I tweeted this: 24 hours later, I tweeted this: 3 hours later, I received this tweet: My point is simple. When someone tweets you, or sends you a message on Facebook, or LinkedIn, or…
Do You Suffer From “Type Hype?”: How To (Really) Find Your Match
Remember the popular, satirical YouTube video called “(Authentic) Black Marriage Negotiations”? Well, if not, to refresh your memory: the wildly popular video featured a computer generated image of a Black woman listing all the things she wanted in a man. The…
Empowerment Made Simple: 20 Thoughts to Change Your Life
I've found that it's essential to examine your thoughts...often. Your thought-life dictates every single move you make. And, something as simple as a sentence - a really great thought that makes you have an "aha" moment - can change the way…
7 Reasons Why I Hate Valentine’s Day
I’m about to write the one post you would never expect a professional matchmaker to write. So, first, let me clarify that I was actually a matchmaker. Yes, that was my “real” job and one that I loved. This time…
10 Ways Dating Will Change in 2014 and Beyond
The only thing constant in life is change. Dating is drastically different today than when our parents courted each other. Expect the future of romance to hold even more change, especially given the proliferation of technology. The following are 10…
15 Ways To Know If You’re Dating a Man or Boy
Let’s be clear: not every boy becomes a man. When dating, knowing how to distinguish between the two will save you time, energy, money and even heartache. Here are 15 ways you can separate the men from the boys... 1.…
20 Successful Habits I Learned Working For Two Billionaires (Part 2)
In Part 1, we looked at general lessons I learned working for billionaires Oprah Winfrey and Enver Yucel. In Part 2, I continue with deeper insight into successful habits - specifically for business-minded readers seeking to understand how extraordinarily successful…
Operation MAN ($100 Referral Program)!
Wanted: Great Men! It’s back! As my matchmaking firm continues to grow, we are constantly looking for more awesome, commitment-minded men to meet our amazing clients - which is why we’ve re-launched Operation MAN. We know almost everyone can…
5 Lessons In Success I Learned Over the Last 5 Years
Have you ever encountered a book, a place, or a person that from the very moment of contact, causes a dramatic paradigm shift in your life? I have. There is no single person living who has had a greater impact…
