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Better With Paul is a newsletter and upcoming podcast for people who value legacy, financial freedom, and culture.

I have spent the last decade talking with peak performers like Oprah, 50 Cent, Katie Couric, and Ted Leonsis. Better With Paul allows me to identify and dissect the business, relationship, and health lessons from the journeys of these innovators, entrepreneurs, creators, and researchers. The podcast will launch on July 1st, 2020!

I write a weekly newsletter called Better where I share lessons learned preparing, interviewing, and observing the world’s top performers. I also include announcements and invitations to special events. Available only through email.

12 Signs To Know You’re Really In Love

Love does not have an on/off switch (and whoever invents such a thing will instantly become the richest person on the planet). When we are not interested in someone it is obvious but when we are, it can be confusing.…


Falling in Love with Potential is a Mistake!

I told the moderator of a panel I was on: “falling in love with potential is a mistake.” The moderator looked at me like I was crazy. He gave me the side-eye and said: “I don’t agree at all, Michelle…


What Do You Like To Eat? (Why Online Dating Bites)

I have a love-hate relationship with online dating. On one hand, we can’t deny it’s creating marriages but on the other hand, we can’t deny it’s creating headaches...big, serious, migraine ones. My firm manages dating accounts for our clients and…


Don’t Wait On Boaz To Knock On Your Door

If I got a penny every time someone told me they are "waiting on their Boaz," my net worth would be greater than Mark Zuckerberg’s. He’s not going to knock on your door. But let me tell you who is,…


7 Reasons Why I’d Never Cheat On My Wife

This is an actual conversation that took place between myself and a staffer (supplied by the venue) at one of my events: Guy: C’mon son, I know you’re married, but don’t tell me you ain’t smashin’ none of these hotties…


If You Want Plan A to Work, You Must Burn Plan B!

There are many ideas on how to become successful. Never have I come across one as simple and powerful as this: Burn Your Ships! This idea comes from the story of Spanish Conquistador Hernando Cortez. In 1519, Cortez landed his…


Let Go and Take Back Your Life!

Love isn’t supposed to hurt. Love isn’t supposed to make us feel disrespected and used. Even when we have a hard time defining exactly what love is, it’s clear when it’s not given to us. If you are in a…


99.9% Of What’s Said Online Never Would Be Said In Person

Just search for any random video on youtube, it could be something as simple as a cat jumping in a box and it’s guaranteed to have one thing in the comments section: messages of severe criticism and blatant hate. If…


What Do You Want Said At Your Funeral?

Imagine family and friends all gathered for your funeral.  Picture all of your loved ones together to eulogize you. When you think of the general theme of the countless stories that will be told about you by the people who…