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Better With Paul is a podcast, newsletter, and community for everyone who values legacy, culture and financial freedom. Periodically, I identify and dissect business, relationship and health lessons from the journeys of innovators, entrepreneurs and creators from the U.S., UK, Caribbean and Africa.

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Is Your Dating Life Doomed Because You Had A Bad Relationship With Your Parents?

When the parent/child relationship is strained – like perhaps your mother is domineering and controlling or your father is bitter or conflicted – we can fall into this trap of thinking we can’t change our relationship with them, or our…

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Your Friends Are Not Relationship Experts

Your friends are your friends. Funny, thoughtful, dependable and supportive. But they aren’t therapists. They aren’t dating experts. And as the old saying goes, opinions are like “assholes” – everyone has one. Consider the source. Your loved ones often give…

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14 Proven Ways To Create Your Own Happiness 🙂

You are responsible for your own happiness. That’s what our marriage counselor told my wife and me a few days before we jumped the broom. At the time, I didn’t get it. I thought as a couple, we were supposed…

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Above All, Live Your Truth

Four years ago, when I was launching my brand, a close friend and mentor (who was at the time and remains today a very successful businessman) advised me to never talk or refer to spirituality. Why? Because he said it…

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Dating The Same Type of Person Says A Lot About You

If you keep winding up on dates with the same type of person, over and over again, this post is for you! There are things we should know about our character and personality that make us susceptible to attracting and…

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Married Couples Share 10 Secrets To A Strong Relationship

I had the honor of attending a beautiful wedding for a client this past weekend. Every wedding I’ve attended has its unique aspects and this one was no different. At a certain point in the ceremony, the MC asked all…

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6 Reasons Why You Should Take A Dating Sabbatical

Many of you are not going to believe what I’m about to write. It is counter to what you would expect from a professional working in the dating industry - I’m going rogue with this one! At this time of…

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Don’t Get Married Unless You Can Answer These 24 Questions

  I dedicate this post to everyone struggling with how to define 'marriage material.' You’ve heard me talk ad nauseum about the importance of finding a partner that you’re attracted to, who matches your values, and compliments your personality. However,…

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8 Ways To Put The Romance Back In Your Relationship

"Love is like a campfire: It may be sparked quickly, and at first the kindling throws out a lot of heat, but it burns out quickly. For long lasting, steady warmth (with delightful bursts of intense heat from time to…

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How I Sold My First 10,000 Books (4 Lessons To Help You)

If you haven’t yet published a book, know one thing - it is ridiculously challenging. Not only is the writing and editing process tough, the marketing phase makes grown adults cry. Selling books is very hard. There are somewhere between…

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