7 Reasons Why I’d Never Cheat On My Wife

7 Reasons Why I’d Never Cheat On My Wife

This is an actual conversation that took place between myself and a staffer (supplied by the venue) at one of my events:

Guy: C’mon son, I know you’re married, but don’t tell me you ain’t smashin’ none of these hotties that be comin’ to yo events?

Me: Nope.

Guy: C’mon son?

Me: Nope.

Guy: You crazy Paul, you crazy in the head… even if I was married I would be runnin’ all through them hoes.

Me: That’s because you haven’t grown up yet.

I’ve had enough with all the talk about why men and women cheat. Every time a celebrity gets caught cheating on their spouse the media rolls out all the “experts” to tell us the drivers behind why we men cheat. Most of the conversation is tongue-in-cheek with an undertone, especially for men, that implies that “everyone does it.” Well, BREAKING NEWS UPDATE: EVERYONE DOES NOT CHEAT!  As a matter of fact, based on all the research I can get my hands on, the overwhelming majority of data states that “most” of us (men and women in committed relationships) DO NOT cheat.

Now that we have that out of the way, can we also please put an end to the countless excuses and reasoning for those that do cheat? I mean, are Tiger Woods and Arnold Schwarzenegger really “psychological sex addicts” or are they simply irresponsible and immature guys? I have a very simple theory when it comes to cheating: Those who do, haven’t grown up yet, point blank, period. Ladies who cheat are not real women and fellas who cheat are not real men. Cheating is a distinguishing line between the men and boys and the women and girls — one group understands, accepts, and takes responsibility, the other doesn’t. If I were able to spend some more time with the guy I was in the conversation with at my event, I would have gone into more detail to spell out to him the responsibility that real men and women undertake when in a committed relationship. I would have given him the reasons I don’t cheat on my wife.

1) Wedding Vows Mean Something to Me

My mother truly etched this in my mind. I remember when I was a little boy, listening to her and my father argue, and asking if they would divorce. She would look back with a smile and say, “Our wedding vows were a promise made before the Lord. I don’t plan to break any promises I make before the Lord.” Now granted, my parents had verbal spats not WWF sessions, so I can see instances where divorce is a recourse, but the point my mother’s story drives at is about hearing and accepting those very powerful words in your wedding vow: “Do you promise to love, comfort, honor and keep them for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, and forsaking all others, be faithful only to them so long as you both shall live?”

2) My Wife Deserves Better

I can speak for most men who fall deeply in love and tell you that when it happens, your desire to protect surges. The questions of “How can I protect and shield my beloved from pain?” becomes a key fiber in your existence. I’m so methodical about this, when my wife and I watch TV, I deliberately turn the channel when those ASPCA commercials come on, otherwise, I know she’s going to start crying. I fully embrace my role as protector, so how could I deliberately wound her? She deserves better.

3) Letting My Son Down Is Not An Option

When I found out my wife was having a boy, I was incredibly excited. Not just because of the traditional ‘proud father wanting a son’ thought, but I was excited about the opportunity to raise a man. This takes enormous responsibility, and ultimately, I know my son will be what he sees, and when he sees his father, I want him to see honor and integrity.

4) Letting My Mentees Down Is Not An Option, Either

I mentor several young people, mostly in high school and college. The reasons letting my mentees down is not an option are identical to why I can’t let my son down: They will be what they see.

5) I Refuse to Disrespect My Parents & Grandparents

I have two living grandparents, all over 89. They, as well as my parents, sacrificed too much for me to dishonor their legacy or our family name. Family means everything to me, and I wear my last name, in particular, very proudly.

6) I’m 100% Satisfied with My Sex Life

I don’t want to cross the TMI line here, but let me just say, daddy is very happy.

7) The Haters Would Win

As more and more folks follow my work (which I continue to be humbled by), I’ve noticed the pool of haters forming — one even sent me a message saying that they look forward to the day when I get caught up in a “Tiger-like-incident.” Well, I have news for all my haters: You’re going to be waiting, and waiting, and waiting, because this guy doesn’t cheat.

BONUS REASON: I’m not interested in having a pot of hot grits thrown in my face.

 

 

 

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Suzy
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THANK YOU! God has truly blessed you and had ppl in your life to help mold you into a TRUE strong man! He’s also smiled on your wife and son. 🙂 I wish y’all the best and believe that your haters are just saddened because they can’t seem to manage to believe that there are still good MEN out there. Clearly you have proven them wrong!

Happily Married!
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Awesome!! May God continue to strengthen your marriage and may you fall deeper and deeper in love with your wife each day as you two grow successful together! God always honors faithfulness!! 😉

Sandy I
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This is the kind of stuff I like to hear. Hope and encouraging words for me as a woman, to have hope that I will one find a great man, and to know GREAT me are out there who is an overall family man, who loves his children and who loves his wife that no one can make him stray. I pray God continually bless you and your family.

Apostrophe
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You’re not Your…ugh.

Me
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‘I’ve had enough with all the talk about why men and women cheat. Every time a celebrity gets caught cheating on their spouse the media rolls out all the “experts” to tell us the drivers behind why we men cheat. Most of the conversation is tongue-in-cheek with an undertone, especially for men, that implies that “everyone does it.” Well, BREAKING NEWS UPDATE: EVERYONE DOES NOT CHEAT! As a matter of fact, based on all the research I can get my hands on, the overwhelming majority of data states that “most” of us (men and women in committed relationships) DO NOT… Read more »
me
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Fast’er’… bett’er’… easi’er’… cheap’er’… clean’er’…
ev’er’y… ev’er’ybody… etc… when you see the ‘ER’ it is usually asking you
to compare between two things and ask yourself if something is lacking or your
own life or not. It’s asking you to compare whether or not you fit into the ‘status quo’ of ‘most’ other people around you. Numbers used in language to
convex the ‘bigger merits’ of something.
Take a moment to say… ‘ER: Errrr? Is someone trying to sell me on some bad medicine… fool me into buying from the Old Medicine Show instead of properly treating my mentality.’

Louis Brown
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Two more reasons not to cheat; time and money. Both are scarce and if you short one end the other will know it.

Joe
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20 years with the same woman. I get all I want at home. No need to get it elsewhere

Regina
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Paul! The world needs more men like you who are not afraid to stand up for their marriages! Loved this…and I never knew that story about Al Green.

Yetunde
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Everyone, both male and female of marriageable age, contemplating marriage and all our sons need to read this.
Thank God for people like you. One of the role models needed in this day and age.

✯Cassandra Brett✯
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✯Cassandra Brett✯
It is so great to see not only a well written article, but a well written article coming from a man. Too often does a real man get unfairly compared to a boys actions. Having been cheated on in the past, it’s a bitter topic, but it hasn’t clouded my judgement that a real does exist. Thank you for your insight and for your honesty. Your #1 is a very beautiful statement and one that ALL men and women need to read! As far as celebrity scandals… WHO CARES?! They are human like the rest of us… and some of… Read more »
Jamin
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I didn’t work the last (in my case decade) to through it away on a piece of butt. And yes me wife if worth far more than what she can offer. Plus I can get what ever she can offer at home anyway and then some. The only lie / hype comes from other’s admiration when some of it isn’t worth having.

latoya
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It is great to know that there are black men out there that take their vows seriously…..you remind me a lot of my husband……we tell each other all the time that divorce is never an option 🙂 Married for 9 wonderful years and wouldn’t change a thing!

Tired
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What a good man you are. I love your integrity. At the almost 15 yr. mark of my marriage (1 child), I discovered that my husband was involved in a long term affair. Diverting time and lots of money away from his “family”. How dare he disrespect me like this. His parents are married 50 years, and he grew up as a devout Catholic. I have filed for divorce. Pray I meet a good man like you one day.

Lauren
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So refreshing to read. My husband has never cheated and I can’t imagine him ever doing it in the future, but I swear, the media often makes me think that all men are cheaters! Thank you for writing this

Nicole N A
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Awesome! Just awesome! This was very encouraging to read.

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Whoever you are, you made me cry. This is beautiful.
I’m so moved by this post!

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