12 Signs To Know You’re Really In Love

12 Signs To Know You’re Really In Love

Love does not have an on/off switch (and whoever invents such a thing will instantly become the richest person on the planet).

When we are not interested in someone it is obvious but when we are, it can be confusing. Is it love, lust, infatuation, or just thirst?

Well be confused no more. Here are 12 easy questions to help you determine if you are actually in love. While each one individually might not necessarily mean love, if you answer “yes” to 6 or more of the following questions, it’s official, you’ve got the love jones!

1) Do you want to tell everyone about the person?
“Yes” means you feel like getting on a mountaintop with a megaphone and shouting your feelings about the person to the world.

2) Do you share your dreams with the person?
“Yes” means you can share your dreams in full. Our dreams are often the most precious thoughts we have.

3) Can you be told the truth by the person?
“Yes” means even when the truth hurts, you can accept it from them.

4) Do you let them answer your phone?
“Yes” means you’re just crazy 🙂 (just kidding)

5) Are you comfortable with them representing you?
“Yes” means you can bring them to the company Christmas party and leave them alone to talk with your boss.

6) Have feelings for your ex disappeared?
“Yes” means you no longer think about your old boo.

7) Do you care about “why” they think certain things?
“Yes” means you seek to go deeper than just surface conversation and get to know their values.

8) Do you want to invest in the person?
“Yes” means you want to put your effort into seeing them evolve into their optimal self.

9) Is it about more than simply their potential?
Often times we make the mistake of falling in love with someone’s potential and not for who they are before us.  “Yes” means you accept them for who they are now and not just who they could be in the future.

10) You don’t feel embarrassed around them, right?
Sure, when y’all are at the beach he might not have a Shemar Moore six-pack or when at dinner not dress as smooth as Daniel Craig, but “Yes” means you’re not embarrassed by their appearance or mannerisms when in public.

11) Have you begun to see a future with the person?
“Yes” means you have substantive thoughts of the future, like the possibly of having children or sharing of other life.

12) If you think about them right now, a smile comes over your face.
“Yes” means you have a real smile not a fake one.

 

If you gave 6 or more “Yes” responses: Stop reading this post and call them right now to say you love them!

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traceykinohio
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That settles it – I am officially in love. Now… if only I was able to share it with the person who I feel this way about. 🙁

Angela T Jones
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HA! I knew it! Now this confirms it. But I have no idea what to do about it. LOL.

Leisa Ilene
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AWWWWW! I can’t WAIT to finally find love!!!

Diamond
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I said yes to 6-7 questions about 2 different people. No which one is the “ONE”?

Sherlyne xxoo
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Lol… I answer yes to all the questions however I didn’t have to read this to know that I am totally in love with my man 🙂

Cé MP
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not working

Francina Cain
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Haaaa I was a bit too hyped and it’s not working

Zanatra Doret
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I’m head over heels in love. But had to let go because he was not ready for what I was brining to the table. I know my worth and its his lost. It’s crazy how selfish people can be.

StayCee Jay
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Not working

Shawana Cole
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Interesting

Cressida Davis
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Yes!

Angela Williams
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I’m Definitely I love! ❤️

Lauren G Reliford
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Wishes I had somebody to love. *lip pokes out*

Adrian Lanier
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I’m not in love. 🙁

Andrea Moore
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Yes I am in love

Monee Vs MJ
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Yes, I am! I fall in love everyday with me all over again!

Chane TC J
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I’m definitely in love!!!

Cheryl King
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Seiji NotHere.. Thought this was interesting.

Crystal Marie
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It’s not working

Kim Gibson
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The link is not working! ;(

Crystal Guy CG
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No love in a long time smh

Rashida Sawyer
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this was right on time. I love my man

Marjorie Chambers
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Interesting

Gaddiel Adams
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The link didn’t work for me either

Rose Smith
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Yes I’m still in love with him!

Vicky Stevenson Sykes
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Vicky Stevenson Sykes

🙂

Caroline Atkins
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I feel ya!

John Harris III
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Damn….

Darlene Jeter
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LOVE THIS! and yeppers, I’m deep in love 🙂

Tyjuana Wilson
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Aww sookie sookie now…

Kesha Jay
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The link didn’t work

Ruth Peterson
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i wont let him answer my phone

Ruth Peterson
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^ That is true

Rainey MaycauseWetdreamz Roberts
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Rainey MaycauseWetdreamz Roberts

I don’t know what love is or how it would feel coming from a man :/. Never felt those feelings from the quiz.

Erica Roberson
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Mone' Victorious Armah

The link no longer works. =(

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Can’t get the link up

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You can’t be in love with 2 ppl at the same time but if u think u really are choose the 2nd because if u were truly in love with the 1st the 2nd would have never had a chance. Good luck

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Absolutely positively, yes. #NoTestRequired lol

Karen Martinez
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I like taking those type of quizzes. I score a 6!! Ooh, I discover something. Thanks for that quiz Paul Carrick Brunson.

Anne Maries
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I was but he is afraid of letting anyone know he is with me so I guess it is time to let go

Jamze T Ryot
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You should at least tell him you no longer are. and are letting go.

Jamze T Ryot
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Remember lies take a heavy toll on relationships.When someone lies to you it pretty much says they neither love or respect you.

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