30 Steps To A Better You – The Journey Begins!

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WWII veteran Ed Bray was 89 years old when he finally learned how to read the medals he’d been awarded for his bravery. He’d been illiterate for the majority of his life, a secret he hid with the help of his wife, who died in 2009 and close friends.

But he’d been ashamed. It was like he was only living half his life because he couldn’t fully appreciate it all.

While you and I may be literate, we all have things in our life that hold us back from fully appreciating our lives. Maybe it’s our fears. Maybe it’s how we feel about our bodies, or our minds. Maybe it’s emotional or mental. Maybe it’s our relationships – family, friends, significant others – and how those relationships are faring. Are they thriving or failing? And if they’re failing, how is that holding us down?

I’m here to propose that just because you’ve always been one way, doesn’t mean you have to stay that way. Just like Ed Bray didn’t have to remain illiterate, we don’t have to remain unable to find and enjoy the things we want in life.

But how do we get there?

It starts in the same way it started for Bray. We have to learn.

Starting today (and posted each week for the next 30 weeks) I’m going to take you back to school with my new plan, “30 Steps to A Better You,” for how we can make our lives better for ourselves, our families, our businesses, in our personal lives and with our partners. Each step will seem easy to follow, but that’s just the reading part. It’s in the actual doing and following of these steps that will determine whether or not you’ll finally get where you need to go.

Life isn’t about finding yourself, it’s about creating yourself. Many times we get stuck. The “30 Steps” series is the push on your back to help you move. Are you just getting out of a relationship? Are you feeling lost or aimless in life? Are you having trouble clarifying and defining your passions? Then these 30 Steps were designed just for you.

In life we’re taught that the willingness to learn and grow from what we learn is what it takes to make it. It doesn’t matter whether “making it” is for school or for a job or career. How well we adapt and modify our behaviors and mindset determines our success. But how do you adapt? How do you change your mindset?

Well, that’s what I’m here for. Together we’re going to all get to where we need to be.

Are you ready to learn?

To read the first step (#1) on identifying your values, click here.  

 

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About Paul C. Brunson
Mentor, Entrepreneur, & Television Host. My goal is to help you live your best life; in love and professionally. I’m the world’s most influential matchmaker, founded and exited three businesses, host two television shows, spent nearly a decade working directly for a billionaire, and share my experiences by mentoring through Knowledge Share
76 comments
sandra lopez
sandra lopez

 This is a testimony that I will tell to every one to hear. I have been married four 4years and on the fifth year of my marriage, another woman had a spell to take my love away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2years until I met a post where this man Dr Nosa have helped someone and I decided to give him a try to help me bring my love back home and believe me I just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48hours as he have told me, I saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why I am happy to make every one of you in similar to meet with this man and have your love ones back to your life. His email: drmosaspellcaster@gmail.com

thelmaleroy
thelmaleroy

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Bridget Smith
Bridget Smith

Wait. Do we have to wait for everyone to catchup or will you start adding the new one's now and let everyone go at their own pace? Paul Carrick Brunson

Bridget Smith
Bridget Smith

Yay! I've been waiting and holding onto the folder I started this with. Very excited!!!!!!!!!!

Daisy Her
Daisy Her

Paul thank you dude, once again I'm amazed on how much you do for you peeps.. not only do you give us hope to find true love, but you empower us to grow as an individual and I have to say ... you are a perfect example of success.. God bless !! (maybe when you come to Atlanta I can meet you :)) keep being humble#inspiring#empowering#hope# Thank you

Lee Allison
Lee Allison

U re the best. Send love and hug for baby kingston

Joyrina Hunter
Joyrina Hunter

I can't wait I enjoyed mentor Monday U are so inspiring I can't wait to meet U in person

Joyrina Hunter
Joyrina Hunter

Yay Paul you're the best! I've learned so much from you

MKB
MKB

Hi there,

I, like Mia and Charity, am wondering where the rest of the chapters are, there doesn't seem to be anything beyond #9...?

Mia
Mia

Hi, are there only 9 steps instead of 30? I cannot get past 9.

charity
charity

Ive been checking up on this post for a few weeks now, theres nothing past step #9. How do i see the rest of the steps?

Mel Curry
Mel Curry

I'm ready, I'm ready, I'm ready! So glad for this, I missed you a MegaFest.

Alyscia C-Photo
Alyscia C-Photo

I'M ALL THE WAY IN. Ready to be unstuck and move forward.

Janelle
Janelle

I'm in. This year has been a year of growth, anything to aid in the process is appreciated. The world is waiting for me to stop being fearful & step into my greatness. I'm finally ready!!!

Markeith A. Braden
Markeith A. Braden

I am planning to participate and look forward to doing the next 30 days of life with you and others who will participate. Check me out at www.markeithbraden.com. I enjoy reading your post. MAB

Jennifer
Jennifer

Wow...I just stumbled on this site and glad I did. I am looking forward to reconnecting with myself and moving forward!

SB
SB

I'm ready and looking forward to this as well. An awesome way to transition into fall. Thanks in advance!

Chinenye Nwosu
Chinenye Nwosu

I am really looking forward to this Paul. Let it begin already!

KShumate
KShumate

Im In ! What is the next step ?

Michelle Lynn Thompson
Michelle Lynn Thompson

I am ready for the challenge. Looking forward to doing the work to clarify my passions so that I can be actively engaged in this next season of my journey! Perfect timing!

Lake
Lake

This is truly perfect timing my birthday is approaching at years end and I would love to be on my way to a better ME!! Thank you for this series.

Lake
Lake

Thank you Paul .

Noelyn Rodney
Noelyn Rodney

I'm ready for the challenge..."life isn't about finding yourself, it's about creating yourself" - Love it !

Margie
Margie

Thank you for doing this. I need it and more importantly, I'm open and ready for this

Aleshia
Aleshia

Looking forward to it.

Joy
Joy

Water for a very dry well. Thank you Paul!

Shah
Shah

So, we have to wait until next Monday for the first step?

Paul Carrick Brunson
Paul Carrick Brunson

Hi Shah! Yes, next Monday I will publish the first step. Today is the announcement of the series so that everyone is aware of the plan.

Shah
Shah

OK; I'm ready! :-)

Will
Will

I'm in. I need this...I really do!

Nicole Adell
Nicole Adell

I have not been able to acquire your services, maybe some time in the future i still hope to, but the mentor Mondays, your book along with your blog post have helped me delve deeper into my authentic self and reorganize my priorities personal and with work, and things are going really well so excited whats about to transpire. Looking forward to this new series, I will be participating. Also thank for giving us a glimpse of your experiences, fears, challenges and triumphs, those who give advice do not always share there own bumps in the road so thank you and much continued success to you.

Paul Carrick Brunson
Paul Carrick Brunson

It makes me feel good to read this Nicole and know that I have been able to support your evolution. I look forward to you joining this series and believe you will find it to be a value add!